You just can’t win this

Next week, i would be officially engaged. And while i take this step, there are already some nuggets i’ve picked along the way – Avoid Pyrrhic victories at all cost. When it comes to the little arguments, you are advised to argue further at your own risk. Better a warm meal with some good loving… Continue reading You just can’t win this

Don’t you just love those “Love Triangles?”

At one point or the other, we all have been part of a love triangle. It has always been a rite of passage into adulthood. If you went through the basic hoops of high school, you must have been one of the key players in a love triangle. For those unfortunate enough to have missed… Continue reading Don’t you just love those “Love Triangles?”

The black-hole that is marriage

Whenever I stop to think about marriage, it ends with a shudder. This has been the pattern for the last year. As I inch closer to crossing the divide, I wonder what will be of my life. Sure, I am surrounded by married folks –at work and virtually all my childhood friends – who all… Continue reading The black-hole that is marriage

Making a case for Polygamy

I sat glued to the TV as a debate ensued between two camps, topic – Polygamy and its merits; what started as some side banter evolved into an eye-opening discussion. The show was Big brother Africa – known for sequestering housemates for three months from various countries in the continent. Housemates end up competing against… Continue reading Making a case for Polygamy

Yes means Yes Law

Yes-means-yes……is the new law passed by California lawmakers primarily aimed at University campuses. The law mandates Universities to adopt Affirmative consent in their definition of consensual sex. Basically the law states that silence and lack of resistance DO NOT signify consent and that drugs or alcohol do not excuse unwanted sexual activity. This law is… Continue reading Yes means Yes Law